I'd suggest this as a tool, much like a Yes/No/Maybe list, for folks who want a place to start with these conversations. Jase: -acquaintance relationship, but you could, right? Emily: Awesome. We're going to get a little bit further after the break into ways specifically that you can use this, but yes. I really didn't know much about it at all, and M was very instrumental in creating this episode and really giving me their knowledge because I needed it. You align with the other person and can collaboratively choose items from different platters. I could actually see it being a great idea to make a work-safe version of it or a roommate version of it that didn't have the sex and kink stuff on it, but still did cover some of the things about like, what are labels in terms we use? Its values include autonomy, anti- hierarchical practices, anti- normativity, and community interdependence. It's possible to punk you and I'm glad that was part of 2020 fun there. Emily: I really appreciate the intentional way that Maxx created all of the different words in the categories, the subcategories within each category. I think it's just really important to have all those dynamics there to really just remember, "h yes, that's something we should talk about too. As you just said so many of us grow up thinking that we know exactly what a sexual relationship or romantic relationship looks like, versus platonic relationship. On the other hand, polyamory has certain rules. I'm not going to be your mentor and also a romantic partner. Jase: I think it can be a little misleading to think oh the fact that this Smrgsbord has a platter of sexual and has a platter of romantic doesn't mean there is any expectation, you'll pick anything from that area at all, right? This is a great tool to make sure that you're all on the same page with your relationship. According to anarchists, the idea of love being limited to a couple is questionable. You go, Okay, we have this power hierarchy in a way, where you're the one who handles my mail and controls that. I'd like to just talk about some of the things that we see here, because many of them may not be a thing that's in your specific relationship, so let's dive in. Dedeker: I do know. The currently shared version is version five, which is most easily recognized because of the gradient of gray circles behind the bubbles. Jase: I think there's supposed to be plates of delicacies that you can choose from on the Smrgsbord. "Version two called RA Smrgsbord for the spiritually minded was created because there was nothing about spirituality, which is really important in my life and something that I gauge when I'm interacting with someone." There are numerous versions of the relationship anarchy smorgasbord, but the version were discussing the most in this episode is version 5, which was updated by Maxx Hill in 2019. People in an RA relationship have their own set of rules, and do not conform to societal norms set for the relationship. It's going to be a fun episode about how you can make your relationship better which is basically what all of our episodes are about in one way or another. . Dedeker: Oh yes. Multiamory is created and produced by Jase Lindgren, Dedeker Winston, and me, Emily Matlack. The board helps clarify these things for each relationship you use it for. Like any tool it has limits and is mostly a good starting point for the discussions you really need to have about what you want a particular relationship to be. Some of them are stated below: It is popularly believed that anarchy love came into existence because people are scared of commitment or want to stay away from it. I hadn't either but Dedeker, yes you use it with your clients. If you want to learn more about relationship anarchy and the RA Manifesto's instruction to "customize your commitments," I'm teaching Relationship Anarchy Applied on February 22, 2022 at 8pm ET. Then we start to expand out from the center a little bit and we start to get into things like our creative connection, so like yoga or dance together, or doing theater, or offering each other companionship. Please feel free to send an ask or submit a question. The partnership, with time, changes to autonomy but how they connect with their partner totally depends on them. Emily: Umlaut, yes. They actually comprehend that not all relationships are equal. RA is a relating philosophy that applies to any and all relationships, whether they are romantic, platonic, personal or professional. Emily: You get a Smrgsbord and you get a Smrgsbord. Yes. Jase: Oh my gosh. They actually comprehend that not all relationships are equal. That within those, each of those words within it, you also pick and choose from those. Something as simple as, "Hey, I'd like to take another look at what's included on our relationship platter. You can still have these conversations on your own. Now, what monogamous means in a relationship? Its about respecting each others choices regardless of how selfish or stupid it is. What is a Revocable Living Trust for a Married Couple? Monogamy is still very much a part of society. 9. If this show is . Again, a tool like this can help clarify what these relationships mean for each individual. We'll include links to the board in the description for this episode on our website, as well as on our social media this week, but if you can't find it there, you can also just do a search online for it, relationship anarchy Smrgsbord, and you'll find it. This is why, anarchists follow relationship anarchy smorgasbord developed by a few anarchists and posted first on Reddit polyamory forum. Emily: Yes, we're going to talk deeper into that. 5 Benefits, What To Do When You Feel No Emotional Connection With Your Husband, According to Zodiac Signs: the 3 Best Women to Marry, How To Connect With A Man On An Emotional Level, The Role of Romance in a Relationship and its Importance, How Important Is Intimacy in a Relationship, Feeling No Emotional Connection With Your Husband, How to Get Back Together After Separation, 6 Ways to Tell if Someone is Lying About Cheating, 5 Signs That You Are Living in a Toxic Marriage, 7 Important Tips to Build Trust in a Relationship, 10 Effective Communication Skills for Healthy Marriages, 20 Signs of a Married Man in Love With Another Woman. Some people find that helpful. She believes that everyone should make room for love in their lives and encourages couples to work on overcoming their challenges together. Motyer: Supply and support are masculine and feminine forms of the same noun, an idiom of totality, meaning "every . Melville is a poet and it shows. Do we have shared accounts or shared financial responsibilities? T hey're really, really open about talking about things. Think of it like a buffet smorgasbord and you and your partner have one plate to fill, you have to communicate and choose what goes on the plate together. To me it feels simultaneously like a little bit sad because sometimes on the one hand it's like, "Well, it's like, we're so neglected by so many mainstream resources that it's we have to band together and like cobble together our own little resources to educate ourselves. I think a buffet is probably the closest thing for us. . We're discussing its history and creation, its significance, and how you can use it in your relationships even if you don't identify as a relationship anarchist. There are no limitations. added Communication Response: considerate response In 2006, a relationship anarchy manifesto was published by Andie Nordgren, a non-binary Swedish gaming producer. All these, no problem." The best place to share your thoughts with other listeners is on this episode's discussion thread in our private Facebook group or Discord chat. Jase: Interesting. Do we feel the same about this thing? Maybe yes. Then it was updated by Maxx Hill with the guidance of the relationship anarchy polyamory and solo polyamory Facebook groups in April and September of 2018. Emily: Yes, absolutely. However, the rule is to not be overcome by fear and stick to your own rules. Our researcher for this episode is the fabulous Em Mais thank you so much for all of your help on this. Therefore, there is a level of anchoring because of the involvement of another partner when you say I do.. (:1-3) Judged by the Negation of Necessities - Abandonment. It's so interesting to see all the creativity and to see tools like this, like really evolve and grow and change out of time and just be born out of necessity essentially. I sound like such--". Below, we'll include the relationship anarchy chart: Emotional Intimacy Sharing Vulnerability Emotional Support Confidante Words of Affection Physical Intimacy Cuddling Kissing Hand-Holding Dancing Massaging Sexual Intimacy Sexual Acts It's an excellent idea to adjust, to add, to subtract from this board, according to your own preferences and your decisions with the other person about what makes sense for you and your relationship. This blog will focus on answering questions about Queerplatonic relationships, Queerplatonic partners, and the aromantic spectrum. You're like I obviously understand it. Oh yes, that could affect how we can relate to each other and how those power dynamics and imbalances might play out. Relationship anarchy Smrgsbord, have the two of you heard of this before. Part of the issue in managing relationship expectations are the labels themselves. Our researcher for this episode actually had a discussion with Maxx Hill and they are the creator of versions two through five, the majority of the versions that are even out there. It's like, "Oh, you know what? I think there's a reason why I bring up the felt board thing is because something that I do for clients--, Emily: Is it just or is it like in felt like, Dedeker: When you were growing up in school-, Dedeker: Yes, they stick to the felt, and then you'd have act out like little stories and so-. Polyamorous Relationship. It doesn't cut it out clearly how we're actually connecting to each other. I also have a newish Instagram for my graphic design work, which is @Maxxhillcreates, M-A-X-X Hill creates. How one connects to the partner or ways to run a relationship should be on them. I've never used this exact graphic in my own relationships (the latest version was created after my romantic relationship started) but the subjects listed are definitely some of the things that get brought up in discussing with play partners what a partnership looks like to us and what activities are involved - though there's a lot of "jumping off" from the relevant categories. Dedeker: A little bit later we are going to dive into more specifically what's actually on here, like what are . We're talking about version five, which is the most recent one from 2019. The first chapter defines relationship anarchy and expands on its anarchist, utopian, and transformational foundations, as well as its understanding in academic research and by different groups and its interpretations from both familiar and critical perspectives. To me, it reminds me of some movie I watched as a kid. Let's talk about what the heck relationship anarchy even is. Is this something that you want in any relationship or is this something you're sure that you don't want in any relationship? You can find tickets here, and the ticket comes with a recording of the class after the fact. It just means that there's communication around these organic changes happening. Relationship Anarchists believe that if you understand its a polygamous relationship form the start, then both parties are trustworthy since theres no need to hide anything. Sex can be a part of the relationship, but thats not necessarily, a part of the deal. Solo polyamory is the same, except they know they are narcissistic, while relationship anarchists dont. They and some friends took anarchist principles and applied them to relationships, challenging the idea that a romantic partner should always be prioritised above everyone else, which is a key component of our monocentric culture. I highly recommend it to everybody. Dedeker: No, no, no. For instance, a mentor relationship. We have covered this on a couple of episodes in the past but the term itself was first coined by Andy Nord grain in their 2006 essay titled "The short instructional manifesto for relationship anarchy." Here I'm going to read a quote from an article in mind-body green on what the heck relationship anarchy is. Literally, it is more of a buffet, a big table with lots of different food that you can pick from. I know Dedeker, you said that you send it off to clients. It's essentially instead of it being like, "Do you want a relationship or not?" We're going to get more into exactly how to use those potential caveats things that people have brought up, and a little bit more. I just yesterday got introduced to the Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord ( extended Version ). Most beautifully written book you read in 2022: I would have to say Moby Dick. Emily: Speaking of change, there's another quote from the Center for Growth.com that talks about that change that does happen in relationships and how to apply it to this form, this not test, it's a fun thing. What level of touch is okay, how much emotional support can we expect from each other, stuff like that? I am still pretty new to poly, and I am trying to figure everything out. Even as you drill down, you're customizing and in this example, it might be like, "Yes, we want to share a home, but I would actually rather have separate rooms.". Dedeker: Welcome back, I trust that you had time over our ad break to put your little billboard away in the corner, or maybe post up on your wall in the corner next to the blocks and stuff like that in your school, home, classroom. It is also important to note that once you decide on what elements will be included in your relationship, that does not mean that it can never change. It means engaging with various partners and they have a hierarchy system like primary and secondary. It might be good, especially for ones that you really want to spend some time digging into. Depending on the time and resources invested, they seek a structure in their connections related to family. I got a lot of feedback and made version three shortly thereafter, version four, version five grew out of feedback from this group, the solo-poly group, a polyamory group, and comments on the original post of my timeline. Right? Then with the things in between spending a little more time discussing those and seeing not only what you want, but also if this is even compatible at all, like someone's definite no could conflict with someone's, "I absolutely need this." I was like put that you did that because I was looking up articles and I was like Dedeker Winston from the Multiamory podcast. to show your partners what you do or do not want out of the relationship from the get-go. 5 Ways Lying Destroys Marriages, 15 Ways to Deal With an Unsupportive Partner During Pregnancy, 15 Signs of a Condescending Person and How to Deal With Them, What Happens When You Meet Your Soulmate: 15 Amazing Facts, 15 Ways to Know if Theres Enough Physical Intimacy in Your Relationship. folks in the RA community. You and your partner can sit with your smorgasbord in your respective sheets and mark all the elements that you would like to include in the relationship. We're discussing relationship anarchy: can it be practiced in monogamy or is it a contradiction of terms? Its a relationship with a flexible commitment option.it depends on no demand, no expectations rule. That's really interesting having a potential Smrgsbord talk with someone who's like a sponsor or a mentor or someone along those lines. A quote from the Center for Growth.com said, "The relationship Smrgsbord is meant for all types of relationships, platonic, familial, romantic, sexual, et cetera, and is indeed meant to challenge and make clear exactly what we mean when we are using those descriptors." It is a practice of consciously aligning intentions with others rather than unconsciously projecting assumptions and abiding by societal expectations. What was it? There's some different options that you could go about with that. Say if you're in other you're in a polycule or with close friends or something like that, have them fill it out for themselves and then compare just to talk about it, just to have the fun of discussing this, even if they're not someone that you're actively doing the Smrgsbord with yourself. I am currently working on an updated version to the Smrgsbord and welcome feedback. In order for your relationships to go smoothly, there is a certain level of intentionality and discussion that has to happen around a lot of aspects of relationships. My wife and I do a bunch of these together. Literally, the chart is a bunch of different little floating bubbles. Dedeker: That'd be fun. However, considering RA is not about labels, theres a smooth relationship transition, whether they are platonic or otherwise. Oh, you hadn't. Most memorable characters of 2022: Sunday from The Man Who Was Thursday: A Nightmare; Ebenezer Scrooge from A Christmas Carol; Hamlet; Moby Dick; Aslan from The Lion The Witch and the Wardrobe. Things like labels/terms, that's interesting, that's fun because I know a lot of people care about what label is this relationship, essentially. Emily: Here's the quote. Suggested notations are, yes, maybe, maybe in the future, and let's talk. Then maybe in the next one, you could cover several others and you can break it up however much you need to. Anyway, some things to think about when you're using this chart. Emily: That's lovely. This is like a fun tact way to do it. The reason for having so many things on it is just so that you don't forget about stuff and maybe get some for perspectives on something that wouldn't even occur to you. I find it very inspiring. What matters is the The document notes "remember you can't sneak anything into this without the other knowing or there will be conflict and disappointment later" as well as that expectations and agreements can always be changed by mutual agreement. I think we do that all the time, I don't think we realize that we do it, necessarily. Dedeker: We're not going to talk about that, anyway. As you can see, it's updating and going through different iterations over time. Might feel much easier than starting with, "I'd like to discuss the nature of our relationship having regularly scheduled check-ins about your relationship and time to process also helps diminish anxiety around this discussion. "Relationship anarchy questions the idea that love is a limited resource that can only be real if restricted to a couple." . It has blanks to fill in your own options in almost every category, because relationship anarchist philosophy allows for uniqueness of circumstances and no graphic could include everything, and the text with instructions suggests indicating whether certain categories and activities are "Yes, Maybe, Maybe in the future, No," or color-coding your answers about whether or how often you want to include them in a given relationship. I think a common critique that comes up about honestly any intentional relationship tool or conversation is, "Oh, but this doesn't lend itself to organic relationships." We talked about this in a previous episode, but this takes the guesswork out of that. This chart invites us to examine these very assumptions by disambiguating the different things we could do in a relationship. Maybe it's because the Smrgsbord is associated with rats and surfaces--, Emily: I was like that just it makes me think of a circus Dedeker. The full transcript is available on this episode's page on multiamory.com. That is something we are comfortable with in certain arenas, like the conversation about cohabiting or starting a family together or becoming coworkers that those are arenas where we do recognize like, "Okay, there has to be some intentionality and discussion behind this," and it's okay to extend that into other aspects of our relationships and it doesn't make it any less organic. So, dont be afraid to have your own definition and set your own boundaries and adventures. Some of the categories included in the RA Smorgasbord include Communication Frequency & Method; Emotional Intimacy; Physical Intimacy; Public Displays of Affection; Romance; Domestic Routines; Power Exchange / Kink; and Partnership. Some sections that we don't think of in polyam circles very often but that get to the heart of this being an RA document intended for all relationships include Hierarchy/Power Differences (this category includes being Boss and Employee, or Mentor and Mentee); Collaboration; and the Labels section includes being Chosen Family and literal familial labels as well as colleagues and various possible romantic labels. Some last few things that we wanted to say about this is that the board can be used with other people as well as being used alone. If you see something that feels off to you or like there's numerous conversations out there happening about possible changes, just go and maybe go try to find these groups that they're a part of the relationship anarchy Facebook group. Dedeker: You out there can find out more about relationship anarchy. This week's episode is all about the Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord! They never have been. There has there was once where on Twitter like someone tagged me in like a they made an image of a quote. Mar 2, 2022 - Polyamory is openly, honestly, and consensually loving and being committed to more than one person. or reconstructing an existing one in the line of such a practice, it is important to understand the depths of the structure. Friendship: yes. How do we feel about being vulnerable, sharing love languages, needing to share our values, or our beliefs, physical intimacy which includes pets, massage, nudity, dancing, or includes, and notice that the physical intimacy is also separated from a different bubble that talks about the sexual realm. It's a belief in coloring outside the lines and going off-trail. Emily: Yes. Dedeker: Do what you got to do get a felt board is when I illusion. 339 - The Smorgasbord of Relationships - YouTube This week's episode is all about the Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord! Sometimes, we're just not great at that. How do you best communicate, and how frequently? It even has blanks on it for you to write in extra stuff yourself. https://ifas.ufl.edu/media/smartcouplesifasufledu/docs/pdfs/9-Important-Communication-Skills-for-Every-Relationship.pdf, https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/andie-nordgren-the-short-instructional-manifesto-for-relationship-anarchy, Relationship anarchy versus polyamory versus monogamy, Common misconceptions about relationship anarchy, Spice up Your Day With Cute Relationship Memes for Your Partner, The Importance Of Maintaining Healthy Family Relationships, 35 Relationship Goals for Couples & Tips to Achieve Them, 25 Common Marriage Problems Faced by Couples & Their Solutions, 50+ Best Funny Marriage Advice: Finding Humor in Commitment, What Lies Do to a Marriage? It can sometimes be anxiety-inducing to talk about changing the nature of a relationship, but the Smrgsbord gives you an easy shorthand to start that conversation. not Shomore, Smore. I will be raising some funds to be able to put together a website where I will host the Smrgsbord, both current and past versions and in various spiraled types, outside of the realm of social media. Also, love for one does not reduce love for another. we'll be looking at some of the core components of relationship anarchy and how they can be applied in order to improve our relationships and work against the various normative systems that cause so many to be hurt, disenfranchised, or disempowered.for some more background and a deeper dive into relationship anarchy, check out episode 150: Jase: On this episode of the Multiamory podcast, we're talking about the relationship anarchy Smrgsbord. If you hate it, you also don't have to use it. It is about handling the relationship not on the basis of entitlements and conventional cultural standards but on respect, self-determination, communication, and authenticity. 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